Sharon M. Mielcarz

A candle was lit by Lauren Teta on July 19, 2015 7:53 PM

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A candle was lit by Lauren Teta on September 19, 2014 7:10 PM

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Message from Lauren Teta

My dear, dear friend Sharon:
I think about you numerous times every day, you and your loved ones. Now when I think about you, and your sister Debbie, I always picture the two of you running through fields of magnificent flowers the likes of which we will never know in this dimension. The two of you are holding hands and laughing. How you loved your flowers. The seasons are changing and the hummingbirds are gone. Soon the flowers will be gone. There is something every season that reminds me of you, when the snow flies I will be thinking about skiing with you and will feel your excitement with each and every snow storm. I am relieved that you are in a better place but hope that you are not pushing everyone there too hard. When the rest of us get there you can update us on all the new committees you have formed. I'm quite sure you already have our assignments picked out for us. Can you please, please, give me something simple to do? Today is your birthday my friend but birthdays don't matter anymore, it's all about peace. I wish you and Debbie nothing but eternal peace and happiness. Happy New Birth, my friend. I love you so much, more than I could ever express with mere words.
Love you FOREVER.......

A candle was lit by Lauren Teta on September 19, 2014 6:37 PM

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A candle was lit by Judy Hannon on September 4, 2014 12:01 PM

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A candle was lit by Jille Bean on August 27, 2014 7:28 PM

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A candle was lit by Elizabeth DelSanto on August 19, 2014 9:57 PM

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My sympathy to the family...class of 1980...I have nothing but fond & happy memories of such a kind, intelligent woman...god bless!

Message from Lauren Teta

My Dear Friend Sharon:
We never put out the hummingbird feeders in the spring, just didn't have the interest this year. The day you went to Branford Tom hung a finch feeder in the backyard, hoping to attract a little happiness but they never came. On Saturday night, as I sat outside reflecting, the birds were unusually quiet and remained out of sight. Even the squirrels and chipmunks who normally come to the terrace stayed back. It was as if all God's little creatures were sharing in my disbelief, showing their respect. Suddenly, a large yellow butterfly began flying back and forth, dipping and soaring. As I watched its dance my eyes were led to the feeder and there they were, several yellow finches happily feeding. Then to my amazement, a green hummingbird appeared at the lilies almost within my reach. I looked up and said aloud, "Thank you Sharon" for I knew it was you comforting me as only you could. The hummingbird continues to return several times a day and is now bringing friends. I will never look at a flower the same way. I will always be compelled to look more deeply. I will be watching the critters more closely too. Forevermore, watching and waiting for messages from you. Thank you for being a friend.
Love, Lauren T.

A candle was lit by Gabriella Pernal on July 23, 2014 8:03 PM

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God bless you, Mrs. Mielcarz. You made it your job to make every person who you encountered feel welcome and important. After such a long battle, heaven finally called you home and though you will be missed here on Earth, I'm confident that ill still hear your clicky heels as you watch and guide us from above. Rest in peace, you beautiful woman. And thank you.

Message from Richard

Sharon was a living example of the St Paul ideals. It was my honor to have taught with her. I will always remember her kindness and smile. My prayers and sympathies to her husband, son and family

Fr. Richard McGann

Message from Michael Berube

I owe my financial responsibility and stability to Mrs Sharon Mielcarz. She was my accounting class teacher at St. Paul's CHS. She taught me one of life's most important lessons. And she taught me how to deal with being short with humor. I owe her a great deal and will surely miss her. The world is lessened by her loss. We, those who remember her, must take it upon ourselves to remind the world how brightly Sharon shone by allowing ourselves to travel in her footsteps and to shine just as brightly. Much love and respect from a former student.

Michael Berube
Class of '01
SPCHS

Message from Mila Limson

Mr. Mielcarz and Jeff -
Our deepest sympathy in the passing of your wife and mother. Our son and his fiance are 2007 graduates of St. Paul. From the first day I met Sharon - I felt her warmth. She welcomed us into the St. Paul l community with open arms. The last time I saw Sharon we ran into each other shopping - she asked about my son and his fiance - she was thrilled they were doing well and still dating. She is a special person whose love of life and passion for others was greater than her petite size.
Truly,
Mila Limson and Joe Shea

Message from Mary Ellen Elder

Her radiant smile and kind spirit will be missed by everyone who was blessed to have known her. My deepest condolences.

Mary Ellen (Scott) Elder

Message from Pamela

What a wonderful women so compationate, energetic and good humored. My son Cameron graduated from SPCHS in 2011 and Mrs. Mielcarz always inspired each and every student their. She was a strict kind disciplinarian and such a dedicated educator. Sharon you will be missed. My condolences to her family and friends..
Pamela Eggleston

A candle was lit by overgaard Family on July 22, 2014 7:41 PM

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Message from Travis Thomas

So sorry for your loss. You are in our prayers.
Travis Thomas (2011) & family.

A candle was lit by Jennifer on July 22, 2014 4:40 PM

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Message from Pablo Dante Perleche

Thank you Mrs. Sharon to help rise my children.
Pablo Dante Perleche

A candle was lit by Marisa Mastrio on July 22, 2014 1:49 PM

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A candle was lit by Antoinette (Maljevic) Wishnow '04 on July 22, 2014 11:13 AM

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Message from Love, Lauren

Love, Lauren purchased the Heavenly and Harmony for the family of Sharon M. Mielcarz.

Message from Lauren Ford

Sharon was an amazing mother-in-law to me for 10 years. I loved her very much and loved being a part of the Mielcarz family - there is nobody else like them, that's for sure! :) We shared so many laughs, meals, cocktails, special occasions, holidays and vacations together that I will always remember with a smile. She was the best hostess, the best cook, the perfect shopping partner and had an infectious laugh! She even had my cat booties out to walk around the house every time I visited <3 I am so lucky and thankful that I got to be part of her life and learn everything I did from her. I will treasure our memories always.

Love,
Lauren xo

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Message from Becky Madore

So sad to hear about "Mrs Mielcarz" I read on face book this morning that she had passed. I am so sorry. My name is Becky Caron Madore and I graduated from St. Pauls in 85' and had her for business classes. She has always been near and dear to my heart. I will always remember her for getting me my first job at Bristol Savings Bank through another student of hers, Ellen Cox. She was always so bubbly....so tiny yet larger than life. I remember vividly babysitting for Jeff and having him perform a "KISS" concert for me. I was responsible for the lighting and he did his thing LOL. Mrs Mielcarz would always laugh and say "that's Jeffrey" My heart is sad for you I will keep you in my prayers

A candle was lit by Joanne Bower on July 21, 2014 11:11 PM

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Sharon was a great mentor for me. Enjoyed our talks while hitching a ride home to
Southington, back when she lived in Meriden...many moons ago.
My sincerest thoughts and prays to her husband Bob and son Jeff at this difficult time.

Joanne Kizilski Bower 1977

Message from Dena Imbergamo

Mielcarz Family - I will always think fondly of "Mrs. Mielcarz". She led my senior class through graduation. I will always remember her energy, her smile, and her all knowing glances....she always knew when we were up to no good. I also randomly ran into her on my wedding day on a beach in Brewster, MA! An added fun reunion on a fun day. She touched so many people. I only have positive thoughts about her, she truly had a gift. I hate that she suffered with cancer on and off in her life and I am sure you did too. Sending you peaceful and healing thoughts.
- Dena (St. Clair) Imbergamo
SPCHS - Class of '90

Message from The Saint Paul Class of 2007

The Saint Paul Class of 2007 purchased the Sentiments of Serenity Spray for the family of Sharon M. Mielcarz.

A candle was lit by Danielle (Marquis) Holton on July 21, 2014 9:23 PM

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A candle was lit by Pat Caruso on July 21, 2014 8:33 PM

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Message from Pat Caruso

Dear Bob and Jeff,
We are so sorry for the loss of your wife and mother. Sharon was one of the strongest, most positive and fun loving women we knew. Her laughter was so contagious! She always shared stories about you and her love for you was always first and foremost. Our hearts our so saddened and we will miss her so much. Our fond memories and the impact she made on countless students (and our kids) will live on forever. Our thoughts, prayers and love to you and your family. Pat and Don Caruso

Message from Caroline O'Neill

A wonderful woman and mentor. She got me through many tough days @ St Paul. She will be missed by all who encountred her. My prayers to you Jeff and Mr Mielcarz.

Message from Rich Guisti

Dear Bob & Jeff,
We are very sad to learn about Sharon's passing. Our fondest memories are the time we spent with Sharon & Bob during basketball season at Pomperaug High School. Sharon was a delightful, well-dressed woman who deeply cared about children and their education. Our thoughts and prayers go out to Bob and Jeff during this most difficult time.
Fondly,
Rich & Robin Guisti

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Message from Amy Shea

Mrs. Mielcarz had a big impact on my life at Saint Paul (more then she probably knew). She was accepting of where we were at in life as teenagers and loved us like a second mother. She gave me and one of my close friends nicknames and we did the same for her. She was full of love and I will never forget her. My heart goes out to her husband, son, and family at this time. We will all be able to see her again in eternity and until then she will stay close in our hearts with the memories she left us.

Amy (Briggs) Shea "Class of 1998"

A candle was lit by joe Ribeieo on July 21, 2014 5:24 PM

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Message from joe Ribeieo

So sorry for your loss Jeff my toughts and prayes are with you and your Dad !

Message from Mary Dombrowski '83

Bob, Jeffrey, and family,
Words cannot adequately express Sharon and I have been struggling to find the right words since she passed. I feel most blessed to have known her and to have had her as a mentor at SPCHS! Her presence will ever be felt there. While she did not attend SP as a student, she will forever be a part of the falcon family! We all know how much she loved you both - you were her world!

I hope I can be half the person she was. God bless and you can be assured that heaven's newest little angel will always be watching over you!

Peaceful White Lilies Basket was purchased for the family of Sharon M. Mielcarz.

A candle was lit by Terri Barnett on July 21, 2014 3:11 PM

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Mrs Mielcarz will always be remembered for her infectious smile and the positive role model in educating my daughters...

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A candle was lit by Gina Salzillo Stephan on July 21, 2014 12:22 PM

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A candle was lit by Dianne Greco on July 21, 2014 12:07 PM

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Message from Dianne Greco

Mr. Mielcarz & Jeff -

It is with heavy heart that I write this now that I have learned of Mrs. Mielcarz's passing. She was an inspiration to me in my Junior & Senior years at St. Paul and I have never forgotten her kindness and mentorship over the years. I am so sorry for your loss, but know that you have a special angel looking over you. You are in my prayers.

Dianne Tetreault-Greco '76

A candle was lit by Bech Jo on July 21, 2014 11:53 AM

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Message from Karin Krauland Isner

My sincere sympathy to the Mielcarz family. Mrs. Mielcarz taught me personal typing which has been such a valuable skill. I recall being very excited to be able to experience her as my teacher. She was a loving and kind teacher who made a great impact.

Message from Rick Carpino

Bob

So sorry to read of the loss of your wife. Our Michael was so pleased to see you last month at Fenway, and so saddened for your reason to be in Boston. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your son.

Kind regards

Denise and Rick Carpino

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Message from Lisa (Dobbins) Landry

Lisa (Dobbins) Landry purchased the Platinum - Serene Angel for the family of Sharon M. Mielcarz.

Message from Mary Ann Jurek

Sharon interviewed me for a teaching position at St. Paul's a few years ago, where I found her to be lovely. I saw her at John Skubel's funeral Mass last summer, but did not get a chance to speak with her. I'm sorry to learn she was ill. Bob, I remember you telling her how much you loved her while delivering John's eulogy. I will keep Sharon and your family in my prayers.

Mary Ann Jurek
Meriden, CT

A candle was lit by Lisa (Dobbins) Landry on July 21, 2014 9:24 AM

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Message from Courtney Dowling

So sorry for your loss, Mr. Meilcarz and Jeff. I remember when Mrs. Meilcarz got her brand new white Dodge something or other... and she used to bring me to St. Matt's in the morning, then Kelly to St. Paul with her. She was so nice. I hope that she didn't suffer... big hugs.

Courtney Dowling

Message from Lisa (Dobbins) Landry

To the Mielcarz Family,

My thoughts and prayers are with you. She is at peace and in a much better place but will always be with you. She cared about every student that crossed her path. She was a blessing to everyone.

With great respect,

Lisa (Dobbins) Landry (" Class of 1982")

Sentiments of Serenity Spray was purchased for the family of Sharon M. Mielcarz.

A candle was lit by Lynne Hafersat on July 21, 2014 8:17 AM

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Message from Jackie Pahl Class of '94

Sending prayers your way. Mrs. Mielcarz influenced my career decision, after taking her accounting class. She was a wonderful person and will be missed dearly.

Message from Tony & Judie Lodovico

Bob and Jeff~
Our St. Paul family has lost one of its finest. Sharon fought her battle with unbelievable spirit, and unbreakable eloquence. She was an inspiration as a wife, mother and educator. May the love and support of family and friends help to ease the pain and strengthen your memories. Our love and prayers are with you and your family. Rest in peace, dear Sharon.
Tony & Judie Lodovico

Message from Angie Strid

May you find comfort with all the memories you have shared. I know I will fondly remember all the wonderful times in high school with Sharon as my business teacher.

Angie Strid

Message from patty gmuer

Dear Bob and Jeff,
My deepest sympathy on the loss of your beloved wife/mother. I had the extreme pleasure of spending the day with Sharon when she came to our classroom at PHS to observe our special students. Sharon was a beautiful, caring, genuine, and compassionate woman and both of you were the loves of her life. Cherish all of the wonderful memories you have of Sharon and she will always be with you.
Patty Gmuer (PHS)

Message from Laura Carbone

No one like her! She had an incredible spirit, and her smile and laugh would light up a room! My kids (Class of 2007 and 2008) said nobody could do the morning and afternoon prayers like her! What joy she brought to us all!

Can I get an 'Amen'?!

Message from Father Ed Przygocki' 72

Dear Sharon, as you enter Eternal Happiness a part of you will remain with us who love you. Now may a bit of us go with you, as we ask for your prayers as we pray for you! Fondly, you are our dear Saint Sharon... Shine on for ever!
Father Ed Przygocki
Missionary
Class of '72

Message from Tim Maynard

I am saddened to hear of Sharons passing, if fact she came up in conversation last Weds evening, when I learned of her illness, to this day and right now as I sit here "typing" I can't help but remember her, as I correct my hand placement (she taught me personal use typing long before we had these new fangled computers) She also assisted in several plays and variety shows, where her devotion to her students always showed through........

I think of her guidence at St Paul, her glowing smile and friendly manner, she will be missed by all that she touched through the years, God Speed Sharon...you go to a greater place........

Tim Maynard
Class of 78

A candle was lit by Michael & Leah Scharff on July 20, 2014 11:48 PM

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Message from ronda aliano

Jeff, Mr. Mielcarz and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. She was such a beautiful lady, inside and out. I will never forget her and remember her helping me through rough times in high school. She cared so much for her students. I remember her requesting and dancing to Billy Ocean's "Carribean Queen"! At the prom. She was so much fun. You are in our thoughts and prayers. God bless during this difficult time.

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Message from Mary Benoit

Bob and Jeff,
Our deepest sympathy for the loss of your beautiful wife/mother. Our children all attended St Paul Catholic High School and were blessed to have had somone of Sharon's class and integrity to guide them through those difficult teenager years.
May she rest in peace.

Ken and Mary Benoit

A candle was lit by nancy gavin on July 20, 2014 10:06 PM

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Mrs. Mielcarz you are an inspirational lady! You were the one who encouraged both my girls to strive to the best of their ability and helped them to get there. I will miss your warm welcoming smile both at SPCHS and at St. Matthew Church. Rest in Pease!

Nancy Gavin, Bridget (class of 2011)and Allison (class of 2014)

Message from Lisa Mazzarella

I always loved her hugs and bubbly hellos. She was such a good listener. I will remember her typing class back in the day. She cared so much about St. Paul and the students. As an adult she would say please call me Sharon. She will always be Mrs. Mielcarz to me. God Bless and thank you.

Message from Jennifer Cardenas

My condolences to the family. May god bless her now and free her from pain. Mrs Mielcarz was one of the first people who helped me get a uniform for my 1st day of high school and also helped me get scholarships.

Message from Robin Laskarzewski

Sharon will long be remembered for her warmth, spirit and love of life. I admired her grace and strength in confronting her illness. I'm sorry that I cannot attend her services to personally offer my condolences to Bob, Jeff, Debbie, Joan and other family. I wish you all peace. Robin Laskarzewski

Message from Patty McLaughlin

Mrs. Mielcarz helped to make St. Paul Catholic High School the unique, nurturing and special educational environment that it was. Her dedication to her students was a gift that will impact them for their entire lives. I am grateful for all she did, especially for my girls and in turn for my family. For her faith, for her sacrifices, for her suffering may she already be at peace in the loving arms of Our Savior.
Eternal rest grant unto her, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon her. May her soul and the souls of all the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace. Amen. Mrs. Mielcarz, you will never be forgotten.

A candle was lit by Patty McLaughlin on July 20, 2014 9:00 PM

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Message from jane kenney

Mrs. Mielcarz was the very first person at St. Paul Catholic High School that helped me feel happy. Anxiety ridden about starting a new school, she made the first day/year of school bearable with her wonderful smile and welcoming personality. As years went on, we became closer. She was, without a doubt, the strongest woman I have ever had the pleasure of knowing. Even throughout her illness, she remained happy and always lived her life to the fullest. There was never a dull moment with this woman, and it is truly so sad to see her go. We must remember, though, that she is in a better place now and at peace. The Saint Paul/Bristol community will miss her terribly, but no doubt her legacy will carry on. Mrs. Mielcarz, you were a very special woman and will always be remembered. God Bless.
-Jane Kenney
St. Paul Catholic High School, Class of 2013

Message from Heidi Fontneau

Mrs. Mielcarz always had a wonderful smile and positive words that were genuine and kind. I still make her stuffed mushroom recipe from a cooking class I was lucky enough to attend at her home. I am so sorry for your family's loss and for her extended St. Paul family's loss. She was truly one of a kind. You are all in my prayers at this most difficult time.
Heidi Fontneau '77

Message from Gin

So very sorry for the loss of your wife and mom! She was a kind, sweet lady and I was very happy to have known her! Wishing you both comfort and peace

Message from Vinny

Bob….Thoughts and Prayers with you and your family. GOD has another angel along HIS side!

A candle was lit by J. Tavera on July 20, 2014 8:19 PM

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Message from Michael & Donna Giuffrida

Mrs. Mielcarz....second to none. A friend to so many. She did countless things to help so many students and families over the years, and always with class and grace. Sincerest condolences to her husband Robert and son Jeffrey, and thanks to the two of you for sharing her with us. She'll always be remembered.

Message from Gabriella Houle

My condolences to your entire family! Mrs Mielcarz was one of the strongest women I've ever met, she made my time at Saint Paul just that much more special. Her personality was bright enough to light up a room and make anyone's day better just from seeing her smile. She will be forever missed by the entire Saint Paul community, and all the lives she has ever touched. God Bless!
~Gabriella Houle
Saint Paul Class of 2014

Message from Terri Birdsall

I was a student of Mrs. Mielcarz when she was a brand new teacher in the late 70's. I am a teacher myself now and nearing retirement age. I remember her as a young vibrant woman who taught "Personal Typing". She certainly has left this world too soon. My condolences to her family and friends. Terri Doyle Birdsall (76)

Message from Brian Peloquin

So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers go to Jeff and entire famiy.

A candle was lit by Danielle (Ricci) Persichetti on July 20, 2014 6:17 PM

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Message from Jeff Mielcarz

If anyone has photographs or even better video they could post under the "Photos and Videos" tab - my father and I would appreciate it. And like I said on Facebook if you are lucky to still have your mother tell her you love her today - you can never say it enough and they can never hear it enough. I know I wish I said it more. Thank you. -Jeff

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Message from Christine Pajonas

Deeply sorry for your loss. Thomas and Christine Pajonas (parents of three daughters, Classes of 1998, 2000, and 2003 at SPHS)

Message from Deborah Bailey

Always a true professional*

Message from Deborah Bailey

Sharon befriended me when I taught at St. Paul. We shared many joyous memories as colleagues. She was generous to others and skyways a true professional. My deepest sympathies to Bob and Jeff

Message from Fran Serratore

Just observing Sharon be herself has made a positive impact on countless students, staff,and friends. She was an amazing person. My deepest condolences to her family.